慢慢來,我等你
曾經,有人問水星熊,誰送水星熊的生日禮物最好,水星熊説,是我媽,因為,她給了水星熊一條命,到現在水星熊還用著。
人很容易有個錯覺,以為父母都比我們成熟。她把我們生下來,養大成人,理應性格、想法、處理問題的能力也比我們好吧?我們卻總是忘記,父母都只是普通人而已。
我們也許會體諒同事的膚淺,嘗試遷就他們的做事方法,或會忍耐朋友的缺點,卻常常忘記了,父母也有自己的成長之道。父母的成長環境、生活習慣,也會在他們長大的過程中,留下不同的陰影和遺憾。他們不一定比較懂得處理困難,特別是子女受的教育和學習也可能比上一代來得多,能力也有可能會比父母強。
在某部日劇裡有句喜歡的對白是這麼說的:“如果寶寶是零歲的話,父母也是零歲。”沒有人是生來就懂得當父母的,畢竟,父母也是在我們出生的那一刻起,才開始學習養育孩子。他們跟我們一起成長,除了要面對自己的人生課題以外,還要處理子女的大小事,也許在成長路上,比我們走慢了一點也說不定。
你養育我長大,現在我陪你變老。
有天所有的媽媽們都會老,都會走不動,但沒關係,你慢慢來,水星熊等你,就像水星熊小時候緊跟在你的背影一樣。等水星熊有天追上了你,甚至超越了你,換水星熊説:
“媽,慢慢來,不要急,我會等你。”
祝熊媽生日快樂。
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